Have you seen the film ‘Hitch’ staring Will Smith, or even ‘Shall We Dance’ starring Richard Gere and Jennifer Lopez?

If you have, you will know that women can be swept off their feet by impressive dance moves!

It would appear that women judge a men’s potential as a lover by his dance moves. With few exceptions, music touches women in a unique and profound way, it seems to move their soul. And dance – well, that releases their sensual and playful side – you only have to watch the smiles of any group of women on a dance floor together. So come on guys, its time you stopped being a wallflower, and take to dancing shoes onto the dance floor yourselves.

Women believe that they can tell the type of lover a man will be by his dancing. They can tell if he will be shy or outgoing, passive or passionate, selfish or generous. When it comes to dating, women want a man who has more to him that just work, eat and sleep.

They want someone strong, bold and self confident – is that what your dancing displays?

Almost everyone will remember Patrick Swayze in ‘Dirty Dancing’

He was dancing, he was being moved by the music, thousands of teenagers and even older women fell in love with him watching that film, and wished their partner could move like e did in it. It didn’t mater that he doesn’t seem that attractive – it was the way that he moved with such self-confidence, such joy. . . . . .I’ll bet that of those thousands who did fall in love with him, many would have thought that he would make a great lover!

Though the dances, he showed that he was strong, he was playful, he was relaxed. . . . . and are these the attributes women look for in a lover????

Hell, YES! It gives them a spark below the belt. Apart from alcohol, why do you think that nightclubs are the place where most people hook up?

Think about the popularity of recent TV programmes such as Strictly Come Dancing, and Strictly Dance Fever – how many girls do you know were not out of a Saturday night as they wanted to catch those programmes.

You are up against some fairly high standards, so get yourself some lessons.

There are plenty of salsa, tango or even ballroom dancing classes around these days, get yourself down there, and improve your technique . . . . not only will your dancing improve, but you may even become a better lover in the process too.